Be Still, My Soul
“Be still, my soul, the Lord is on thy side.”*Unexpected but much-needed words at 2 a.m., when the house is quiet but my soul is loud. “Be still, my soul, the Lord is on thy side.”A thousand memories of my father, the hymn-playing classical guitarist whose practicing accompanied my sleep most nights for my first…
I Can’t Get Drunk
My friend E started drinking first, and together we made plans for my debut with alcohol. Piña coladas on my 40thbirthday. But then I decided to try a drink first with my husband—the primary witness to my life. The night was cold in every way. My turn to plan date night, and I reserved an…
Tobi’s 2025 Book Awards
It’s that time where I look back over the books I read the previous year. I’m giving out five awards of my own making, followed by a list of five additional favorite reads. At the end of the post you’ll see the complete list of 27 books I finished, plus a few that I read…
Death Is Beautiful
Death is beautiful. City streets and sidewalks are papered in it. Trees shout it with blazing reds and yellows—a rare season when the glow of sunset settles onto every country road and city block. And the individual deaths are as beautiful as the collective. If I dare use the worn-out snowflake analogy, each leaf is…
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Hi, I’m Tobi Goff, a recovering perfectionist, learning the crazy ways of Jesus. I am married to a fellow kingdom seeker and together we imperfectly respond to the mystery of God’s grace in our lives. We have two young daughters and enjoy raising them in an old house in the beautiful pacific northwest.
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